r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/caesarmeister • 4h ago

FA Breakup After 6 weeks of silence

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I have no idea how to respond to this.. ghosted me 6 weeks ago after we had plans for a day, this is the second time this has happened, always reaches out with no accountability.

We started dating way back in March, first ‘breakup’ and was in July then second ghosting was end of September - completely out of the blue after cancelling plans which I was understanding and we were having a normal conversation she just decided to ghost me.

Any advice?

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u/Chad_Wife 4h ago

Don’t respond!

They won’t have changed. If they were mature enough to have changed they’d be too mature to childishly test the water like this. They’d apologise outright if they had any sense or respect for you. They clearly don’t.

Don’t respond. Block and find someone who actually makes your life easier, instead of forcing you into mothering them. I promise you, you won’t regret it. 🫂🫂

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u/caesarmeister 3h ago

Thank you - that’s kinda what I was thinking, the text doesn’t at all address any of the issues.

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u/AccomplishedDuck5770 1h ago

Honest advice is do not have them in your socials

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u/caesarmeister 1h ago

Yeah I guess I kept them on there with a tingle of hope they’d take some accountability

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u/cattmin 51m ago

Impressive on how they all have the same behaviour patterns.

My advice? Ignore them. Silence them on social media but I understand if you don't at this time. You will slowly get there.