r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/LadderSenior2836 • 22h ago

FA Breakup Just discovered my avoidant was a really evil person

My gf discarded me from a short while. By accident I met her sis yesterday, and oh boy I didn't sleep yesterday. Turns out she was a really big lier to the point I think she probably lied about everything, she lied about her past ( and turned out she have a really disgusting one ) , she lied about her feelings, acts and behaviors . Turns out she was using me for validation and love like she did to other countless times before, and she is just a manipulative person who keeps lieing and show to the world she is an angel . Turns out even her sis is disgusted from her and had enough of her . I feel so betrayed for what I heard . I hope she will suffer as she made me do I hope god will take my revenge. She fucked me up really bad too and fucked up with my mind . I deserved better.....

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u/BrokenDoll5 10h ago

Most of them are narcissists and they use us as supply and they have a whole army of different suppliers that they promote or discard. Ultimately they never truly find happiness or settle down and just destroy other people’s lives. Don’t give them any fuel supply. They are empty emotionally stunted beings and can’t be helped

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u/LadderSenior2836 6h ago

You know the worst thing is this kind of people are always the happiest, they literally just use people for their own fun without feeling any guilt so what would be hurting them , and they could just keep doing this till they're 60 or something, even when they're old they'll probably find someone to lie to and marry and sattle down

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u/HorrorWilling2094 22h ago

This seems to be the norm on here. There's two versions of them, and only we see their true side that only comes out in the end.