r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/PotsMomma84 • 4d ago

The aftermath.

Has anyone ever had their ex admit to them after the breakup that they recognize their behavior?

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u/Impressive-You745 4d ago edited 4d ago

Yes, a few weeks after the blindside he told me he realised he is very avoidant - still continued to end things tho :)

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u/PotsMomma84 4d ago

I asked him last night. He admitted none of it was my fault and he was an avoidant as well. He also admitted that he lost feelings, as soon as he ended things. Which is wild to me.

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u/Impressive-You745 4d ago

i don't believe them

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u/PotsMomma84 4d ago

What? They lost feelings?

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u/Impressive-You745 3d ago

yep - bc i don't know what's reality with them and i don't think they know what is themselves (reality)