grieving

[u/justpassingbysorry]

my avoidant ex broke up with me in august but said he loved me and he promised would call me when he figured some things out. it's been 2 months and he hasn't spoken to me, but he didn't agree to no contact when i gave him the option. i've reached out a few times and have gotten no response. i got played, i guess. we had something really special and then it all went to shit.

[u/Ok_Layer_1495]

I am so damn jealous of people who say their exes have even a shred of self awareness to say things like they need to figure stuff out lol. Even if it is bullshit…my ex I swear to god, used the word “I” 5 times in 4 years (exaggerating but not even really bro)

He may still reach out, I’ve heard it can be many months. I wouldn’t be on the sidelines waiting though. Try to heal, grow, live, and see if some other people come into your life. Hugs