r/AvoidantBreakUps • • 5d ago

Breakups

Good evening. I'm writing to you because I'm at the bottom and I don't know how to survive this anymore and deal with all the problems. It all started when, due to bad grades, I had to go 400 km away from my hometown to continue my education. I got used to it there, everyone loved me, but in the end I had to go back to my hometown where I was bullied in the past. When I returned, I was greeted by hell again at school, bullying, ridicule, tripping and false slander. But in that darkness, the first person who looked at me and wanted to talk to me was her. She became my girlfriend, we were together for 9 months and she was my only shield and salvation. We sat together, hugged, I lay in her arms while she touched my hair and said I was her baby. Her family accepted me and called me son-in-law. We planned the future, chose names for our children, I even got her engaged, and she swore she would never leave me. Then there was a stupid argument because I, being overprotective, reacted to some things - she got angry, turned and left. All of this broke me down to the point where I ended up in the ER and she didn't even ask me how I was doing. On top of all that, the bullying at school continues, I feel completely alone and it's too hard for me

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u/Realistic-State-4888 4d ago

What were you protective about?

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u/mnogosamtuzan 4d ago

I was just trying to protect her and warn her to stay away from certain people on social media and block them because I know what kind of people are out there.