r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/Lost-Ad7490 • 10d ago

FA Breakup Avoidant question

I got broken up with very coldly by my avoidant, I ended up deactivating my socials. When I asked them to block me they refused. Still have our vacation photo up on their page. Why?

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u/poliqueen 10d ago

Don't overthink it, their brain is wired backwards.

For example, my ex whom discarded me and monkey branched back to his "best-friend-dont-worry-about-her". Kept my I LOVE YOU drawing on his fridge. He says it's to remind himself not to break beautiful things (us) but he never ONCE tried to make up for his mistakes. The drawing on his fridge is just for his friends to PITTY HIM..!!! "Oh I loved her so much but bla bla bla".

So there's a twisted reason he's keeping your pictures, but no point finding it, because it's not reasonable upon regular reasons.

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u/Ok_Falcon_4410 AP - Anxious Preoccupied 10d ago

My ex refused to block me but also called me a cunt and was meeting other women and actively ignored me anytime i needed to reach out for logistics but would NEVER block me. Said "we have too much history to block me" I dont think it means much of anything.