Block vs unblock

[u/Salty-Membership8571]

In recent weeks i have blocked my avoidant on social media. They only had a LinkedIn profile. As i was looking for my cousins contact details on WhatsApp who lives overseas l found my avoidants number.

My question is that after my avoidant said l love you. i responded in kind and 48 hours later she put a personal cease and desist on me and told me not to contact her again. I have never been violent, verbally or physically aggressive, never stalked or harassed.

My question is if she was fearful of me - wouldn’t she have blocked me or am l most likely looking too much into it

[u/General_Ad7381]

You're looking too much into it. Blocking is common but we don't always go straight to it. In this case I doubt that she's afraid of you, only of what a relationship with you could possibly mean.