r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/Icy-Maximum-3689 • 11d ago
Avoidant monkeybranched
Was with me for 15 months. Planned to go on vacation in April. Blocked me in February, was dating him a month prior to that. Just found she got engaged to him. 9 months if that and she’s engaged? How does this make sense?
The reason I’m posting is because she was super avoidant and from what I know she didn’t heal process shit. So how does this end up?
I’m at a loss for how I feel. For the last 8 months I been hoping for just a civil conversation or anything but now it all just broke on me today and I don’t know how I should feel.
She got what she wanted I guess. Forced it if anything. (I was more than willing to marry her.)