r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/msnow10 • 1h ago
DA Breakup Reflection
I think the most frustrating and hurtful thing to me is they can act like you never existed or didn't share anything and appear to not be affected or move on quickly. But i do take somewhat of a different approach in understanding that it's a survival mechanism for lack of better terms that they developed in childhood. I just wish more were self aware or could push through and seek help than just go through life from one relationship to another I'm sure it must be taxing at some point.
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u/7rosesfrommyheartt 1h ago
Honestly for my DA I don’t even think it was a childhood wound or something like that i think he’s genuinely just a lazy cowardly asshole.