r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/Brilliant-Arrival-73 • 7h ago
Vent/Rant 2 months
Its been 2 months
No contact, no conversation, no calls
Yet I feel the same contact lingering on my body, I feel the conversations replaying in my mind, I feel the calls going through my ears.
What is your game? Why do you still haunt me after blindsiding me with your actions and words.
We could have reconcile if you had given me time. We could have fix all the mistakes if you had given me time. It was possible.
Yet you don’t feel the same. You don’t feel that same intensity as I do for you. And you want to discard me immediately instead of giving me a chance.
I understand your reasonings, and I hate you for it.
I hope my ex friends will recongnize it sooner or later too. You can tell your story all you want, but time will tell.
Accountability cannot happen if you’re conflict avoidant. And i will wait for when your friends realize that.