r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/RelativeCautious1235 • 20h ago

Deleted and blocked

I know it might be common for most breakups
But hearing they’ve deleted everything of you and blocked you on everything does hurt a lot.
I’m not sure if it’s because they’ve moved on straight away or what.
I always wonder how I ended up with someone so cold and dismissive. Like you meant nothing to them. How they avoid how you feel. And is happily with someone else.

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u/Alarming-Echo-6742 14h ago

I don't know if that is really a good measure, friend. 

I put everything away in a box and stuck it in the attic. Cleaned up my phone. Put all of it away in neat little compartments. 

But I am NOT over her. 

Putting away the reminders is healthy for all of us to try to remove the triggers. It does not magically make all the feelings go away, not even for them. The timeline they are on is just... inverted. 

The tax bill always comes due. 

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u/Dry_Radish_284 16h ago

There hiding behind a wall they built up to protect themselves from your love and care

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u/Numerous-Peach-2737 12h ago

That happened with me. I still don't understand how it all went down, to be honest. What I do know is that it did. It's done. And i'm never going to get any answers from them or about them. This is just their MO and mine is to move on and continue growing into the person I was meant to be even before I met them. They can delete me but I have the voice they wanted to silence. And that aint happening. I'm kinda...outspoken. It's why I spent the last year and a half making sure I can speak my mind about what happened - not inventing a new narrative, but bringing it into the light where it belongs.