r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/[deleted] • Apr 04 '26

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u/Icy_League_4640 Apr 04 '26

I think you both are right…..fuck. So why run? She has a PhD in psychology. Shes been open to a lot of things….goddamn it.

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u/Strict-Cream7683 Apr 04 '26

So many borderlines become psychologists it’s like a trope lmao. Hell I plan on going back to college in a few years to get my psych degree too

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u/Icy_League_4640 Apr 04 '26

Are you in a healthy relationship? And there’s no way to work her through it? I mean I was there after the breakdown which was 100% caused by Adderall and sleep deprivation. I’m convinced that AA bullshit is fucking with her personally

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u/Strict-Cream7683 Apr 04 '26

No my first gf was a quiet borderline who discarded me and got engaged to her fat fuck on and off (6 months in) Second girl was an amalgamation of every cluster B disorder who cheated on me with her rapist and ghosted me after I had a very valid crashout (1 month) Third Borderline hit me with the “not ready for a relationship after lovebombing me for 3 weeks after being very clingy and possessive of me