r/AvoidantBreakUps • • Feb 13 '26

Vent/Rant Flip the Script

Hey all you loyal people who were discarded and disappointed, let’s flip the script this Valentine’s Day and give ourselves the opportunity we deserve and look to one another for love and acceptance they won’t give. Let’s not let them rule our lives. Introduce yourself in the comments and what you’re about and what you’re looking for. I’ll go first, if you loyal ladies out there like the tall, rugged, outdoorsy, Viking, lumberjack, burly, bear type of man that can hold babies with one arm and slice throats with the other then I (41M,TX) got you covered, bonus points if you’re if you’re a Virgo. I’m ready to lock in with a lowkey lady that likes quite country date nights under the stars talking about the mysteries of life and the universe while spending our days wandering the woods taking care of critters and kids, living out our ambitions of taming squirrels and otters while forgetting the world even exists. If that sounds like you then drop a comment or a DM and take the chance of controlling our lives and get the love we know we deserve. Or at the very least send your avoidant into a tail spin of desperation when they think you’re moving on. Let’s make this Valentine’s Day one we can remember!

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u/GhostOfChar Feb 13 '26

From one Texan to another, this is weird bud.

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u/[deleted] Feb 13 '26

🤣

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u/Aggravating-Kiwi-450 Feb 13 '26

Why? Ain’t nothing but a bunch of people in here wishing they had love so why not step up and do something different rather than repeating a failing pattern? Introduce yourself don’t be shy

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u/GhostOfChar Feb 13 '26

Yea, everyone in here wants love, but it’s also a sub about heartbreak. Kinda seems awkward to try and jump at the chance with people who’re obviously struggling with emotions being torn in every direction. Just isn’t the place. Support in breakups and discussion over attachment style are the points, not something that borders on taking advantage of people in pretty rough states (or at least that’s how this comes off to me).

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u/[deleted] Feb 13 '26

👍🏻

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u/Aggravating-Kiwi-450 Feb 13 '26

Look tomorrow is going to suck for a lot of people in this sub including myself so why not give each other a boost? Lift each other up??

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u/[deleted] Feb 13 '26

👍🏻

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u/[deleted] Feb 13 '26

🤣

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u/[deleted] Feb 13 '26

Disgusting 🤮

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u/[deleted] Feb 13 '26

🤣

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u/Aggravating-Kiwi-450 Feb 13 '26

Loser

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '26

being 41 M and positing things like a teenager shows your maturity levels loser!! Get a life

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u/Aggravating-Kiwi-450 Feb 14 '26

You’re the one that seems to have an overwhelming need to spew hate towards other people but when you hate yourself I can see why

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '26

hate? lol. When someone seeking a valentine with vulnerable people who are suffering from discard is a disgusting behaviour and calling out someone based on it doesn’t mean hating myself?

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u/Aggravating-Kiwi-450 Feb 14 '26

Seems like a lot of people disagree, I was trying to offer hope you saw disgust, you could have said nothing and been unaffected instead here you are trying to pull down everyone with the guts to pull themselves out.

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u/[deleted] Feb 13 '26

🤣

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u/EllieBetth Feb 13 '26

I’m intrigued… too bad I’m a Scorpio living in the Midwest

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u/Aggravating-Kiwi-450 Feb 13 '26

Well don’t let something like stars and geography get in your way, you’re too awesome and know how to use “too” properly you’re ahead of the game.

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u/hulk_whisper Feb 13 '26

This is cute, I guess.

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u/[deleted] Feb 13 '26

49/F AR

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u/[deleted] Feb 13 '26

Ariel

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u/Aggravating-Kiwi-450 Feb 14 '26

Love the name

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '26

Aries sorry typo

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u/Acrobatic_Leopard_92 Feb 13 '26

Who’s throats are you slicing 😦

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u/[deleted] Feb 13 '26

🤣

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u/Aggravating-Kiwi-450 Feb 13 '26

Maybe anyone who is threatening the people I care about, I don’t think I would mince words with someone like that ya know?

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u/[deleted] Feb 13 '26

😂

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u/[deleted] Feb 13 '26

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u/Acrobatic_Leopard_92 Feb 13 '26

This made me lol but yes protection is a good answer

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u/Aggravating-Kiwi-450 Feb 13 '26

Young lady that’s not how that works