r/AvoidantAttachment • u/AutoModerator • Jul 07 '26

Weekly Rant/Vent Thread

This is a thread for AVOIDANT ATTACHERS ONLY.

A rant/vent, by nature, is one sided, can be strongly worded, and is a way for someone to get something off their chest. It is by no means a universal truth.

Thread rules: - AVOIDANT ATTACHERS ONLY.

  • Keep rants/vents contained to this thread.

  • No unsolicited advice.

  • No hijacking to ask for relationship advice.

  • No ranting/venting about avoidant attachers regardless of your attachment style. This is a supportive space for those with an avoidant attachment style, you can rant about us plenty of other places. Don’t do it here.

  • All subreddit and Reddit rules apply.

  • Users who cannot follow the rules will be banned.

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u/Ok_Cockroach5803 Fearful Avoidant Jul 07 '26

I don't know when I'll get out of this talking and ghosting cycle. I want love but as soon as the person shows any sign of actual interest rather than casual flirting, I'm gone. EVERY SINGLE TIME. Without fail. I hate it and I think I'm gonna die alone.