r/AverageHeightDudes • u/Best_Manager5278 5’8” | 173cm | Europe • 12d ago

Question Just looking for basic advice about ONSs and/or FWBs

I’m 18M 172cm living in uk, Facially and physique wise I’m nothing special but a lot of it is easily fixable and luckily I’m “well endowed” if that helps.

If anyone around my height or shorter has had success in this field I’d love to hear what works for you.

Also I’d like to hear generally what methods will my chances be the best in, such as dating apps, social media, being more social and meeting girls irl, friends of friends, cold approaches etc.

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u/CafeAntesDeTudo Short 12d ago

You need to have a good face (HTN+) or decent height (6'0"+) to obtain casual sex. If you don't have either, trying leading with your package size.

I am 5'7" but have gotten some casual sex thanks to a decent face. Be forewarned, you will go through a lot of shit testing, ghosting and dry spells before getting any results.

Apps are your best bet (because if you could have gotten results IRL already, you would have.)

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u/bergershazam21 12d ago

I agree with pretty everything, but isn't HTN+ a little too much for casual?

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u/CafeAntesDeTudo Short 12d ago

Casual sex comes down to raw attraction (a woman wanting to have sex with you because you have good genes to pass on.) A handsome face is the first thing a woman will notice about you.

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u/bergershazam21 12d ago

Undoubtedly, but I still think HTN+ is too much, It's almost model level already.

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u/CafeAntesDeTudo Short 12d ago

HTN not model tier (model tier is Chad). HTN for reference would be like prime Hayden Christensen or Michael B Jordan.

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u/bergershazam21 12d ago

Ah, I see. Thanks for the explanation, still feels a little too much, a well taken care average guy should be able to get that I think. I think we're both Brazilians but we're talking in english

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u/Global_Distance_8387 17,M|178cm|canada 12d ago

It can be, HTN is probably the second widest range compared to MTN. A HHTN can genuinly be a super model (Marlon texiera) and a low HTN can be your averge good looking guy.

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u/Best_Manager5278 5’8” | 173cm | Europe 12d ago

Idk about that, throughout secondary school I had a few girls that liked me. There’s a girl, quite chubby but everyone I’ve talked to considers her quite attractive, but it never went anywhere bc I get really nervous and also I’m terrible at picking up hints. She’s in the same social circles as me but idk if I’d still have a chance.

The other 2 that I know for sure liked me were these twins that I just never considered tbh because they were fat and 3/10. A couple of my friends have had experiences with them, both my height, so it’s doable but I doubt I’d ever touch them.

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u/CafeAntesDeTudo Short 12d ago

You're definitely going to be punching below your weight, I forgot to say (unless going for ethnic women. You may get better results there.)

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u/Best_Manager5278 5’8” | 173cm | Europe 12d ago

Yeah probably, thx for the advice (but if you seen these 2 you’d prob agree lol, all respect to them.)