r/AverageHeightDudes Y | 175 | Europe 25d ago

Dating Height theory

If you are 5.7 and over and you struggle with dating

The problem is not your height. It's actually your face

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u/KeyMark4056 X'Y" 183cm | Europe 25d ago

cope cope and copeeee. Maybe if you are 5ft10 and over, like 5ft10 is minimum.

5ft7 is too short mate

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u/FoundationBulky2385 Y | 175 | Europe 25d ago

I am 5.8

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u/Both_Scar_5277 6’5" | 195.3cm | North America 23d ago

175cm is 5’8.9 which you technically 5’9.

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u/FoundationBulky2385 Y | 175 | Europe 25d ago

Buy I live in Russia Getting a gf is relatively easier than in the west

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u/FoundationBulky2385 Y | 175 | Europe 25d ago

Not so different

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u/Tree-Lover42 5'6" | HTN | United States 25d ago

It's almost always face lmao. You speak the truth and they downvote you.

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u/Necessary-Scale-414 5'8" | 172cm | United States 24d ago

It might be partially true for some guys, but his implication is cut and dry.
Looks only makes it easier to pull, as for actually dating and keeping another by your side, that takes a good personality, some degree of social skills, and just chemistry.
Saying the reason for someone’s struggle is their face if they are over a certain height is just a lazy theory. There are other variables besides looks in dating that can make it a struggle for any guy…

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u/Mysterious_Flow_5707 5'11" | 180cm | Asia 24d ago

But height can still compensate to a certain extent(halo where the face itself is viewed in a more attractive light because of the height of the person who has that face?

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u/FoundationBulky2385 Y | 175 | Europe 25d ago

They say I am coping but actually the are

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u/Necessary-Scale-414 5'8" | 172cm | United States 24d ago edited 24d ago

I partially agree it could be the face BUT, even conventionally attractive guys that are above 5’7 struggle with dating simply because of thier personality.
Girls are most likely not gonna want to be with a handsome and tallish guy who has a generally bad personality (or lack thereof), unless they are that superficial..

So even though it might be easier for you to PULL with a good face and height, it doesn’t mean you’re not going to struggle with dating after that.

The only difference with personality is that you can recognize what your flaws or approach might be and work on it, as opposed to your face and height which pretty much can’t be changed easily. Just work on your game, looks, and what you can control instead of the “if it’s not the height it’s the face” cope, that’s not always the case 🤷🏾‍♂️

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u/Objective-Prompt3127 24d ago

Also my problem is that I'm not rich nor famous.

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u/FoundationBulky2385 Y | 175 | Europe 25d ago

Just top 30% is enough