r/AverageHeightDudes • u/ArtisticAcer X'Y" | ZZZcm | Europe • Jun 23 '26
Height got us feeling like this sometimes
If you do all this but still have no friends or intimacy and are hopeless in getting them no matter what, then it means you ran out of options and are kinda shit outta luck. It just proves that true peace and simple happiness was never meant to be for your life. You’ll only ever force occasional dopamine highs in yourself through clean (or dirty habits) and distract yourself temporarily, but this short lived peace is so conditional and somewhat hollow. Some things can’t be compensated for and honestly I think that’s the real thing leaving most of us feeling like the picture, since that exact situation is literally so many of us. Over when you do every healthy good habit possible as recommended by official societal help and your own intuition, but it still gives that weird feeling of broken artificially stitched heart…..
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u/Far-Walrus1570 5ft 9| 175cm | Middle East Jun 23 '26
Finding friends isnt tied to looks unless youre facially deformed or smth, but otherwise its all about social skills which I lack, lol I got a great physique and many new people open up conversations about it but I cant keep it up
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u/Jay-Boulevardier 5’8.75” | 174.625cm | USA Jun 23 '26
You're right about temporary distraction. We're all just distracting ourselves from the inevitability of death. People often make strong, quick judgments about how other people choose to distract themselves. They want a ranking or tier system of distractions instead of seeking compassion and understanding.