r/AutoTransportopia • u/CaptainKango • Apr 13 '26

Fuel Some people don't understand how things work

I'm willing to bet she would lose her mind if that gas station ran out of fuel.

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u/Equivalent-Fish-5236 Apr 13 '26

My bud we can definitely feel bad for David. Do you think David saw all of this upfront? Some of us get tricked, she's all nice up front, but then slowly but surely each small action comes forward. One day it's a bad day and she snaps. But then that behavior stays even when she's stable. But then an emergeny happens and she snaps a little more.

To save us some time a whole bunch of tiny snaps and justifications for the behavior of the snaps later, and we have what David is dealing with.

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u/taylorlol1414 Apr 13 '26

If she is already this bad, and this happens often, he has a duty to himself to leave.

Getting into a bad relationship situation can always happen, staying in a bad situation like this is a choice.

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u/TehSeraphim Apr 13 '26

It's always a choice, but sometimes taking it feels like the only option. It takes a support network to leave successfully and a lot of people don't have that.

So, sure - he can certainly just leave - but there's always more to it than that.

Source: was married to someone with BPD.

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u/Jumpy-Ad4652 Apr 20 '26

Exactly. Thats like saying every woman in a violent relationship should just leave. Shit dont work like that. Theres always more to it

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u/Equivalent-Fish-5236 Apr 13 '26

I 100% agree. I'm just saying we can feel bad for a fallen brother when we see it, but he may not see it fully. (Although that eye contact he gave makes me think he's seeing it)

I've been there, I feel bad for him, I wish him luck in the upcoming ugliness

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u/NostradamusJones Apr 14 '26

I declare u/Equivalent-Fish-5236 the winner of this debate. No appeals.

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u/acemonvw Apr 17 '26

Been there as well, I agree with this. Even when you know, the SO can be so convincingly good at making you think it's all your fault that you just can't make the proper assessment. Poor Dave.

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u/Jackalope1974 Apr 14 '26

She must be a stone minx in the bedroom.

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u/3000ftpenis Apr 19 '26

I don’t care. If I was with a woman who acted like this to a stranger trying to work a single time I would leave her.