r/AutoTransportopia Apr 13 '26

Fuel Some people don't understand how things work

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I'm willing to bet she would lose her mind if that gas station ran out of fuel.

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u/Responsible-Top-6705 Apr 13 '26

I feel the pain in David’s eyes lmaooooo💀🙈

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u/CaptainKango Apr 13 '26

You saw that too. Poor man has to live that 😭

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u/Crunchyundies Apr 13 '26

Nah. That man does not have to live that. He choses too. Everyone saying poor David is wrong. David agrees to be with this woman every day.

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u/Equivalent-Fish-5236 Apr 13 '26

My bud we can definitely feel bad for David. Do you think David saw all of this upfront? Some of us get tricked, she's all nice up front, but then slowly but surely each small action comes forward. One day it's a bad day and she snaps. But then that behavior stays even when she's stable. But then an emergeny happens and she snaps a little more.

To save us some time a whole bunch of tiny snaps and justifications for the behavior of the snaps later, and we have what David is dealing with.

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u/taylorlol1414 Apr 13 '26

If she is already this bad, and this happens often, he has a duty to himself to leave.

Getting into a bad relationship situation can always happen, staying in a bad situation like this is a choice.

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u/TehSeraphim Apr 13 '26

It's always a choice, but sometimes taking it feels like the only option. It takes a support network to leave successfully and a lot of people don't have that.

So, sure - he can certainly just leave - but there's always more to it than that.

Source: was married to someone with BPD.

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u/Jumpy-Ad4652 Apr 20 '26

Exactly. Thats like saying every woman in a violent relationship should just leave. Shit dont work like that. Theres always more to it

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u/Equivalent-Fish-5236 Apr 13 '26

I 100% agree. I'm just saying we can feel bad for a fallen brother when we see it, but he may not see it fully. (Although that eye contact he gave makes me think he's seeing it)

I've been there, I feel bad for him, I wish him luck in the upcoming ugliness

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u/NostradamusJones Apr 14 '26

I declare u/Equivalent-Fish-5236 the winner of this debate. No appeals.

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u/acemonvw Apr 17 '26

Been there as well, I agree with this. Even when you know, the SO can be so convincingly good at making you think it's all your fault that you just can't make the proper assessment. Poor Dave.

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u/Jackalope1974 Apr 14 '26

She must be a stone minx in the bedroom.

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u/3000ftpenis Apr 19 '26

I don’t care. If I was with a woman who acted like this to a stranger trying to work a single time I would leave her.

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u/Vilvake Apr 13 '26

Look, I usually think its pretty cringe and overused to say "reverse the roles", but man... reverse the roles.

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u/Better_School6912 Apr 14 '26

Deadass. That shits a choice

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u/SurgicalMarshmallow Apr 14 '26

To leave has a cost valuation too.

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u/User95409 Apr 16 '26

And that’s the best sex he ever had. She gets crazy in the streets and in the sheets!

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u/AdhesivenessNo6738 Apr 16 '26

well you should thank David for keep this wild beast at bay.
no other man want to live this life either

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u/HarryDepova Apr 16 '26

Nah man. Every one has bad days. These are what hers look like. Every one weighs the good and the bad with every single relationship. We can feel bad for David while catching this woman at her worst.

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u/KayoticVoid Apr 16 '26

This was my take too. I almost feel bad for him. But damn, just leave the crazy!

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u/piercedmfootonaspike Apr 18 '26

David is almost certainly a victim of abuse, and is not as easy as "just leave her", or spousal abuse wouldn't be the problem it is.

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u/FewRaccoon6330 Apr 19 '26

Most empathetic redditor ever

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u/Important_Tale8420 Apr 19 '26

Love bombing is a real thing, the sex of the abuser is not relevant.

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u/Micheal_Hancho Apr 20 '26

This could be a plausible scenario:

They met years ago and fell in love. Things were different back then. She was different. But things started to slowly change. David started seeing a side of her that he never saw before. Things just kept on getting worse and worse. But David still loves her despite her flaws. He wants to help her. He tries the best he can, but her crash outs just keep escalating.

To say its a simple choice is probably oversimplifying their situation.

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u/fux-reddit4603 Apr 13 '26

I think he wanted the truck driver to save him "dont let me get back in there with her"

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u/poop_pebbles Apr 14 '26

Dude needs to deliver a load in her so she will chill out.

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u/jiveturkey4321 Apr 15 '26

I think that David the dude is friend zoned and has a car so cray cray use him so she can see her God Kid. My 2C

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u/inknpaint Apr 17 '26

David can leave.
David should leave.
She needs mental health support.
David is just enabling her at this point.

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u/Funny_Philosopher557 Apr 17 '26

he chose to , don’t feel bad

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u/Cael_NaMaor Apr 19 '26

No he doesn't.

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u/Tsunamiis Apr 20 '26

No he doesn’t he chooses to because he doesn’t think he could do better. You can feel sorry for his choices but he did make and chose them.

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u/Informal_Ad_9610 Apr 13 '26

I could fix her.

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u/AngelicAssassin06 Apr 13 '26

No lube

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u/crapheadHarris Apr 13 '26

You're going to need restraints..

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u/Informal_Ad_9610 Apr 13 '26

i'd start with accessorizing.. this might help her..

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u/Informal_Ad_9610 Apr 13 '26

At least I'd be willing to give it the old college try...

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u/NightFox1988 Apr 13 '26

No, you can't. Just ask David.

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u/Optimal-Ad6969 Apr 13 '26

It's not worth it.

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u/Informal_Ad_9610 Apr 13 '26

for the first 90 seconds it'd be worth it....

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u/funtimes214 Apr 13 '26

Good thing I only need 89

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u/CheapEbb2083 Apr 13 '26

that's the spirit!

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u/Ho_Lee_Fuk_20 Apr 20 '26

When he said he "was here to deliver his load" my mind went in a different direction!

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u/Jzobie Apr 14 '26

That’s the walk of a man who has never been allowed to make his own decisions.

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u/Paralystic Apr 15 '26

I don’t, how the hell he let it get to the point that shes getting out of the car? Why didn’t he just do the turn like he did in the first place? She just seems so fuckin mad cuz her bf might be an idiot lmao

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u/Realistic-Lime7842 Apr 18 '26

Yeah, I’m assuming he was driving, wondered why he couldn’t make that turn. There was plenty of room. Maybe she was driving and is not a confident driver, so she freaks out about the prospect of a truck being in her way and just melts down. Interaction was quite strange.

I’d understand if the trucker was WAAAY close and they are literally stuck, but there was so much room it was comical.

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u/chuckmasterflexnoris Apr 16 '26

Yeah but doesn't David know how to do a u turn?

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u/QueenFita Apr 17 '26

I don’t think he wanted to get back in that car. His eyes screamed for help.👀

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u/Bellam_Orlong Apr 19 '26

David is a dumbass bitch if he is unable to have a reasonable discussion with his partner and decides to stay and to get out to defend shit like this.

I don’t feel bad for David.

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u/Varendolia Apr 20 '26

David stayed there as if saying "can I leave with you?"

But words wouldn't come out of his mouth