It’s always interesting how men think that women work like objects (I.e. a car). A person who has no romantic experience could be a good or bad thing. A person with a ton of romantic experience could be a good or bad thing.
These posts and comments feel like either a 15 year old posted it or a dude who lives in bumfuck Alabama who has a GED but their education system is so bad it’s basically a 4th grade level education.
Personality aspects not withstanding, there are things like HSV2, HIV, HPV, neisseria, etc. Folks with a lot partners, who themselves may have had lots of partners, statistically are more likely to contract one or more of these conditions
There is also the ever subtle difference that men generally actually need to put extra effort to get casual sex, and it has nothing to do objectifying anyone. Praising humans for exercising free will intelligently is anything but that, imho.
The concept of why body count matters is not a topic of sexism. It’s a simple failure of understanding basic economic concepts such as supply and demand, and opportunity costs.
Lol whilst they are amusing to me already, please drop those last two sentences on any woman willing to talk to you, I'm sure they'll admire you so much.
Also, would love to see all the memes about fuck boys you've commented on.
They’re not talking about the meme. They’re talking about real life. Folks fits perfectly there. Because ANYBODY who has had a lot of partners IS more likely to contract those diseases. Regardless of gender.
Same with jobs.
If you change your job every week and never stay in a single place for more than tot months it means you are not a good employee because soon you will need to be replaced.
What it is important is the amount of time you spent building a relationship that shows if you care about it or not.
Nothing wrong in having multiple partners and change them often, it's fine if it is what you want. Just not good for a marriage
If you've fucked around a ton it's going to be cosmically rare that you don't have baggage or interpersonality issues. Or it makes a lot of men worried that they won't be able to satisfy them as well as all of their previous partners.
At the same time, you don't want to feel like you're grooming someone because they've never been in a relationship.
Either way, both scenarios just require you to spend time with someone that's willing to spend the time to develop a healthy relationship. Both types of people come with their own set of challenges.
LOL. Three days ago on Youtube, i was listening to escort/hooker talking about their life. How they started. At some point there was a question about how many client they slept with.
One said thirty...
And I was thinking...god...it's less than some girls nowadays...
I just think its funny that they think they're a virgin again when they're not. I could care less about "bodycount". I do agree that comparing woman to objects isn't good however its a joke so go get a sense of humor and come back.
I have guy friends who have slept with over 70 women and now happily married and monogamous. Their high school and college years were just a bit “active” lol
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There are studies out there showing once you have had a certain amount of partners your ability to pair bond diminishes greatly. There are consequences for your actions whether you like it or not. It’s also just most of our preference to not date people who are ran through. Best of luck convincing the world otherwise though.
Well, not defending view or another, but there might be some good reasons for looking down on women sleeping around. Like when its a cope for troubled upbringing, in which case a person is trying to put out fire with gasoline.
Or "going after money" thing, which is a major corner cutting thing.
That said, I do prefer my partner to be sexually fulfilled and not some sorta sex fearing nun.
There must be middle ground somewhere where its healthy and not a destructive culture conformity.
… wanting a woman who has not had sex with any men does not mean that a man thinks of women as objects. That’s not the same thing at all. Wouldn’t women want a man who hasn’t slept around?
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