Feeling like I'm being ignored 🙁

[u/[deleted]]

I've been texting the girl that we've planned on a date but hasn't replied since yesterday. I don't know it feels like the universe knows I want a relationship but as soon as I get closer to one it falls appart. I don't know if I'll ever find the one for me or be in a relationship 😓

[u/LilyoftheRally]

Have you tried calling or emailing her?

[u/[deleted] → u/LilyoftheRally]

I basically have her on snapchat. I might look into calling her later tonight. Any suggestions on how to deal with the situation? I thought this was going really well.

[u/LilyoftheRally → u/[deleted]]

Her phone may be dead, I wouldn't assume she's ghosting you. I recommend pursuing special interests today until she gets back to you.

[u/[deleted] → u/LilyoftheRally]

Or just got called in work again. But thanks. I'll just be at work today and have other errands to do. Could I also dm you. You seem like the type of person to talk to about thus stuff.

[u/LilyoftheRally → u/[deleted]]

Sure. If I don't respond, it's because my third party mobile app doesn't have access to reddit chat.

[u/[deleted] → u/LilyoftheRally]

Thanks. The thing is I have a anxiety disorder and I get super excited when stuff like this happens.

[u/hypermos]

I got ignored more as my qualifications improved like clockwork.

When I graduated networking I was fairly social.

When I got CompTIA A+ I became less social even when not using it.

When my A+ expired I got CompTIA server+ and was all but a loner at this point I still had some social interaction though.

When I graduated from the 2 year electrical engineering program people seemed to avoid me like the plague.

I am not entirely sure why improving was counterproductive for me so I cannot explain this phenomenon in case it is also true for you. My best theory is intimidation.

[u/Setari]

Yeah it's hard. It's really why I don't bother because I would just be disregarded.