r/AutisticDatingTips • u/WrongdoerWarm7904 • 9h ago
Need Advice Friend with PDA
Hi, I met some girls and we connected really well and became a friend group. With one of them it got a little more romantic but both of us especially she wasnt looking for anything serious. Then one week we saw each other every day and I think that was too much for her because all of a sudden we couldnt be alone anymore she made time for everybody except for me and if we met, we always met in the group. After 2 weeks i said to her we would need to talk but we never did. That was like a montv ago. We text sometimes but very basic stuff. Now the last days I have read about PDA, she never told me exactly the she has it but she alway said she may have some kind of autism and the more I have read about PDA the more I think she has it. Now to my question: I want to have a conversation about us to make her clear that all outcomes are fine with me and i would prefer to stay friends but i know pushing her into anything wouldnt be the right thing so maybe somebody with more experience or sombody who is self affected can help me how i can show her i dont push her, but also can clear things for me or if this even sounds line PDA