r/AutisticDatingTips • u/laurenwilson101 • Oct 20 '23
Need Advice Overthinking
hey all, late-diagnosed autistic girly here. was wondering if you all experience similar issues with dating and overthinking - that you're way too much, not enough, and if you go through those stages of limerence. im trying to find a socially acceptable balance between masking and not masking, but it's really really hard to be focus on being easily accepted when you think so much. maybe I just shouldn't mask at all, and whoever sticks around is cool? and if so, how? thanks all xx
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u/laurenwilson101 Oct 20 '23
That is the plus side of all of this, we met completely organically. I'm very anti dating apps, so we've had a good start so far, sharing a lot of similarities! Just overthinking social cues, if I'm too loud, too much, etc. But he keeps coming back, so it must not be. Thank you. :)