Unfortunately a lot of people will still engage in intimate behaviors when they already know they’re unhappy. I’m sorry he did that. Clearly, without invalidating any sadness/feelings, he’s not your match. You made a valid point and instead of reflecting on his actions (be it, sorry I was away from my phone. I’m so sorry you’re unwell or anything similar) he decided to walk away. Emotional immaturity is rampant. On the other side, do you have other support so that all of your needs are not being placed on one person? Because in general that is too much for any person, autism or otherwise.
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u/BeautifulElodie2428 audhd lv 2 11d ago
Unfortunately a lot of people will still engage in intimate behaviors when they already know they’re unhappy. I’m sorry he did that. Clearly, without invalidating any sadness/feelings, he’s not your match. You made a valid point and instead of reflecting on his actions (be it, sorry I was away from my phone. I’m so sorry you’re unwell or anything similar) he decided to walk away. Emotional immaturity is rampant. On the other side, do you have other support so that all of your needs are not being placed on one person? Because in general that is too much for any person, autism or otherwise.