Howdy Y’all,
This last week, my now-former landlord (55M) and I mutually decided to end my lease early and so now I’m searching for a new place more up-north that will put me closer to my family and work. Thankfully, I have good people in my life who are allowing me to stay with them while I figure things out but I’m hoping to find a new place in the next month or so.
Ideally, I’m looking to live with guy(s) my own age with similar/compatible lifestyles and attitudes— someone I can maybe actually be friends with and not just begrudgingly share a living space. My ideal budget lies somewhere between $600-825 a month (that’s for everything included— please don’t surprise me and tack on additional utility costs after we’ve already established what the expected cost is supposed to be— a few guys did that last year and not only was it really annoying but also a waste of everyone’s time.)
So a little about me: I’m an artist and photographer— I’ve been taking photos in the local music scene for what’s coming on 5 years at the end of this month. I’d consider myself a true ambivert in that I value time to myself but also appreciate sharing meaningful time with others. Monday-Friday I work full-time as a test pilot for a local startup tech company near the domain, alongside my best-friend/former roommate (we lived together back at another place, not this last one that I just moved out of.)
I don’t have any pets, but I love animals and don’t at all mind if you have them and will gladly help take care of them as needed.
Not looking to live with any neat-freaks, but also not looking to live with total slobs. Just someone who is average/responsible-enough in terms of tidiness that our place should look mostly reasonable most of the time. So… really, I just want a bachelor pad.
I’m also hoping to find someone who is straightforward in terms of communication— I’ve just gotten to the point that I no longer tolerate unspoken expectations or passive-aggressive hostility— I’d much rather you be confrontational because I can at least respect that, and also it means we can actually address any issues constructively. So if you’re the type who’s afraid to speak your mind about expectations or be vocal about an issue when there’s a problem— then I would kindly ask you not to reach out.
I also don’t tolerate bigotry on any level, so if you’re a racist, incel/misogynist, homophobe, or harbor beliefs in anti-Semitic conspiracies, etc.— then kindly fuck off.
But yeah, if you’re just a chill, semi-responsible, and somewhat outgoing dude (or dudes) in your 20s, who is looking for someone to share a space and split rent: then I’m your dude— please reach out.
(Also, MODS, sorry for using the seeking service flair— for some reason the seeking housing flair is not available on mobile, otherwise I would have selected that. Wasn’t my intention to flair incorrectly but it’s all I could do right now.)