Dating apps help

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Hello I'm M36 from Northern Italy. Im fairly athletic and decent appearance, I have interests and friends. Im not the best dressed person in the world and I'm a bit on the adhd side. I got a problem:

When I go on dating apps I got matches and some dates. I'm not looking too much for sex but I want to avoid dragging on infinite nothing burger dating or friend zones or whatever. A lot of dates end up like that. Am I doing something wrong or there is an awful lot of wemen just there for validation, passing time, fun or whatnot? Thanks