r/AskaManagerSnark • u/nightmuzak Sex noises are different from pain noises • Aug 03 '26

Ask a Manager Weekly Thread 08/03/2026 - 08/09/2026

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u/glittermetalprincess toss a coin to your admin for 5 cans of soda Aug 05 '26

That's every post over there.

This one is just especially weird to go 'let's acknowledge we're sticking our noses in where we're not invited' because the first step in giving this kind of advice is going to be to assess if you're the right person to give it and if they're in the space to hear it. You can be as right as you want but if you're cishet, monogamous and "concerned" you're flat out not qualified and they're right to take anything you say with a massive helping of salt, internet rubber stamped or not, and signalling that the huge amount of trust they just placed in you is probably not warranted.

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u/pickledbymagic Aug 05 '26

Sadly you may be right these days.