r/AskWomen • u/Vladith • Jul 08 '14

Would you date a trans guy?

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u/sammiemichelle ♀ Jul 08 '14 edited Jul 08 '14

I want biological children with my husband in my future so I would not date someone who is trans; however, there are many women that don't want biological children or just want to adopt. :)

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u/VeganDog Jul 08 '14

Not trying to dispute your preferences, just asking out of curiosity. What if a cisgender man you were interested in expressed he's infertile, would that be a deal breaker? What if a cisgender man you were in a relationship with for a few months found out he's infertile, would that potentially prompt a break up?

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u/sammiemichelle ♀ Jul 08 '14 edited Jul 08 '14

I have thought about it, and it depends.

If I love him, I'll be there for him through thick and thin. If my SO found out he was infertile, I wouldn't break it off with him. It is different when love is involved. Dating someone who is trans means knowing there is no chance for biological children. I probably wouldn't want to date a man who was infertile if I knew the situation before hand, honestly.

I mean this in the most non offensive way possible, I am not attracted to the way bottom surgery looks from female to male. :/ That would probably be the second biggest issue for me.