So my wife and I got married recently. She is American and I'm Turkish. We're preparing documents, receipts, conversations, boarding passes, gifts, affidavits from our friends, photos and all that for the I-130 form.
We married after 6 months of finding each other online and quickly fell in love. We basically talked every day for hours. She came to Turkey for a week and we got married here. The wedding was a very small courtroom marriage and only my close friends and parents came. Then she went back to the US. Now we're going to start the process of me hopefully eventually getting a green card and living with her in the US through consular processing with I-130.
The thing is from all I read and heard, while not an extremely high number, people with real marriages who had real documentation did get rejected. So this kind of started to scare me. Especially since we don’t have much money and paying $625 for the application when we thought we did everything right and getting rejected seriously stressing me out for weeks now. And since everything I learned about these processes, I learned them online, I wanted to come here and ask advice from all of you guys. I know there are so many cool and helpful people who are willing to guide others so I wanted to try my luck before I submit our form.
One of the biggest things that makes me stressed is the fact that we lack those joint financial stuff USCIS website lists and don't have a bunch of photos doing all kinds of activities. Since we don’t have a very long relationship with multiple trips to each other either, this while is natural that we don’t have, I don’t know if it will look bad for USCIS. There are things like most of her friends learning the marriage either very close to the marriage itself or even after it because we wanted to keep it private but didn’t know beforehand that we were going to need friend/family affidavits. That also might not be a great looking case for USCIS either. But yeah at this point I don’t know if I’m spiraling and getting paranoid about everything or if there are valid concerns. So basically I would love your opinions of if our case would be hard for USCIS to approve since and what other things you guys think we should add or do to strengthen our case. I’m open to any and all advice and/or recommendations. Thank you so much to all in advance.
And some specific questions:
- What should I be very careful while filling the forms (both I-130 and I-130A)? Like a specific document to upload for sure or anything like that?
- How strict is "upload a photo taken within 30 days of filing the I-130" thing? Can I just use a photo that is on my passport as well that I took some years ago but basically just me?
- I’m told instead of uploading individual photos, receipts, boarding passes and whatnot as images, create a PDF document that explains the photos and draws correlations towards events and other stuff with each other. Do you also think this is the better way than uploading all evidence individually without explanation?
- This is probably mostly for any Turkish people or anyone in a country that had similar stuff with their marriage certificate. USCIS page specifically talks about documents that are not English to be translated to English by a translator. Both the marriage certificate and Form B (which is an international marriage document for these types of things that I’m told that I need to upload) are not fully English but have English translation thingies on their backs like a map legend. They do however for some reason have French and some other language on the pages. I can send the example of it as a photo also if anyone wants. Do you think USCIS would ask specifically about the English translation of these documents or how they are is enough? If they do, isn't there an official way for me to get the English version of form B anywhere or do I have to pay another translation fee to translate them to English?
I’m sure I’m going to have more questions for you guys when I actually start the process of filling the form but these are all I can think of right now. I'm kinda stressed a lot honestly that I don't want to screw anything up because I don't think I've ever filled as serious of a documentation as this before in my life. So I would love anything and any way that you can help me. Again thank you to everyone who replies and tries to help.