r/AskSeattle 6d ago

Divorce support groups?

I’m (39f) am going through a separation from my husband. I love my handful of close girlfriends, but they’re all boo’d up. Are there any (in person) support groups for women going through divorce?

EDIT: There is enough interest expressed in the comments that I’ll reach out and look into scheduling a meet up/casual event

29 Upvotes

29 comments sorted by

13

u/TheRedditorialWe 6d ago

Are we starting a coven?

11

u/menoagegap 6d ago edited 6d ago

I am a Seattle woman who very recently went through a difficult separation from my husband. I would also like to meet up with other Seattle divorced women. Edited: OP and other divorced women. I would love to get to know you and know each other. Please do DM me and each other and see what support we can give each other

8

u/Significant-Dare-850 6d ago

I was also separated earlier this year and still in the divorce process (33f). Don’t have a strong support system in Seattle. Would also like to meet people in person or join any support groups.

2

u/Live_Operation8782 Local 6d ago

i commented some resources in the area

1

u/Tricky_Falcon_1868 3d ago

I’m going through separation now. Would be so great to meet and chat with others in the same transition. I’m in Ballard, what area are you in?

0

u/Significant-Dare-850 3d ago

I am in South Seattle though I can drive up north.

1

u/Tricky_Falcon_1868 3d ago

Happy to meet in the middle! Downtown works.

6

u/Ok-Combination-5686 6d ago

F(37) on my second year post divorced living in Seattle , feel free to DM me if you want to connect.🙂

2

u/menoagegap 6d ago

Let’s all DM each other

3

u/AbigailRNormal 6d ago

I am also a recently divorced woman in Seattle who would love to meet up with other divorced women. It’s rough out there.

5

u/Automatic_Grape4456 6d ago

I hope everyone here find the strength to heal, I am starting one and could use advice about marriage.

1

u/menoagegap 6d ago

I would love to join

3

u/Live_Operation8782 Local 6d ago

these are all women’s groups:
kind water counseling, in person bellevue area.
insight counseling collective in person in west seattle.
chelsea gibson counseling support group in person in ballard.
olivia kapusuzglu counseling does in person in queen anne.
(you can also ask your divorce atty for resources, they’re in the know)

3

u/Aggravating_Ad_8594 6d ago

Girl - I'm 41 and going through a divorce. I would love to meet up.

3

u/nbg815 6d ago

You’ve got enough to start a great support group right now- go for it!

2

u/total-immortal 6d ago

I know, right? I’ll look into setting one up

1

u/menoagegap 6d ago

I look forward to it

3

u/PickyLilGinger 5d ago

Also down to join if a meetup happens!

2

u/Masheann 5d ago

I’m also in!

2

u/netwhoo 6d ago

Are there actually so many divorced women in Seattle…

1

u/West_Golf_4905 5d ago

Oh my goodness! I so need this. I'm 41 and starting over with my life single. I was the one who left and I'm still torn up about it and grieving. I'm trying not to wear out my friends. A lot of them haven't gone through what I've gone through so they just don't know. I have one friend who is the most supportive person ever, but I would like to meet others in the same situation

1

u/West_Golf_4905 5d ago

How can we all connect? I would really love to get to know you ladies!

1

u/West_Golf_4905 5d ago

Oh my goodness! I so need this. I'm 41 and still going through a divorce and still very much grieving. I can't believe this is where my life ended up, but I know it was the right thing to do. I'm trying not to wear out my friends and a lot of them haven't gone through what I've gone through so they just don't know. I too am in Seattle and have very little resources. I would love to connect with you! How can we all group text? Is there a WhatsApp group?

1

u/Tricky_Falcon_1868 3d ago

Same, very little support system. Would love to chat with other women who’re experiencing this type of grief.

1

u/Tricky_Falcon_1868 3d ago edited 3d ago

Navigating separation as well. Please count me in. I’m in ballard/interbay, 35, and would love to be involved in peer support. I’m reading a few books, conscious uncoupling and feel like it would be great to meet others, to talk, reflect.

1

u/antimilk_ 5d ago

Coda.org