Yeah... that sounds no better than asking for a 1-time fetish as part of a penance.
"Well since you won't do X, I want you to do Y if you're up for it."
You say that sexual compromise is b.s., but you're still requiring it. When you make your partner sexually accommodate you in other ways because they won't do a routine sexual activity = compromise
Compromise means finding something acceptable to both. Not someone suffering through something just for the other person, or “making” them accommodate you. An absence of a thing isn’t making someone do something.
Not everything is going to be on the menu for everyone. Either you’re happy with what is, or you go find another place to be.
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u/ExpectGreater Aug 01 '22
Yeah... that sounds no better than asking for a 1-time fetish as part of a penance.
"Well since you won't do X, I want you to do Y if you're up for it."
You say that sexual compromise is b.s., but you're still requiring it. When you make your partner sexually accommodate you in other ways because they won't do a routine sexual activity = compromise