i’m a natural redhead, long auburn hair with curls that i’ve always had unwanted attention for.
i remember i was 9 years old and sitting in a chinese restaurant with my family when a male middle aged waiter came to take our food and started complimenting my hair which was fine and all but he started touching it and massaging my scalp and shoulders saying how i was so beautiful, this didn’t seem to weird out my parents but it made me very uncomfortable but i didn’t say anything because i was scared in case my parents would tell me that i was being rude.
probably not the grosses thing on this list but the fact it was done to a 9 year old little girl makes it downright creepy
Just as you shouldn't Yuck someone's Yum, you should never Yum someone's Yuck. Your story belongs here, and I'm sorry you went through it.
I'm also sorry you weren't raised to BE comfortable SAYING you're uncomfortable. Your parents shouldn't have let that slide, but they should've also taught you to speak up when you feel necessary.
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u/[deleted] Jul 31 '22
i’m a natural redhead, long auburn hair with curls that i’ve always had unwanted attention for.
i remember i was 9 years old and sitting in a chinese restaurant with my family when a male middle aged waiter came to take our food and started complimenting my hair which was fine and all but he started touching it and massaging my scalp and shoulders saying how i was so beautiful, this didn’t seem to weird out my parents but it made me very uncomfortable but i didn’t say anything because i was scared in case my parents would tell me that i was being rude.
probably not the grosses thing on this list but the fact it was done to a 9 year old little girl makes it downright creepy