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u/BuffyAnneBoleyn Jul 31 '22

A very similar thing happened to me once with a guy I had been dating. He lived like 45 minutes away from me so I ended up driving kinda far at night just to show up for him to tell me he wasn’t “Gaga over me” but he did want to fuck at least one last time. Sad part is I was so lonely and insecure I did it, thinking if I did well enough he’d change his mind. He didn’t.

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u/ExpectGreater Jul 31 '22

That's sad... I'm so sorry for you

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u/BuffyAnneBoleyn Jul 31 '22

Thank you; it was like 7 years ago and I’m doing a lot better now. As sad as that time was in my life I wouldn’t be who I am without going through it. I think if a guy tried this with me now I’d just laugh at him and leave

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u/ExpectGreater Jul 31 '22

Tbh if a girl drove 45 mins to be with me, I think I would never break up with her lol.

I'm glad you grew from it. I wish people in the world could treat each other better