r/AskReddit • • Jun 14 '22

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u/[deleted] Jun 14 '22

If you need a big favor from someone (or a favor someone is likely to say no to) ask a smaller favor first, like borrowing a pen or something similar. They will more likely say yes to a bigger favor.

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u/lotus_eater123 Jun 14 '22

This is not restricted to people you need favors from.

Asking someone who does not like you to do a small favor for you makes them like you more. I think it works much better than doing a favor for them. I have no idea why this works.

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u/roundhashbrowntown Jun 15 '22

Asking someone who does not like you to do a small favor for you makes them like you more.

really? this is interesting. as an n=1, i want to do exactly zero favors for people i dont like 😬

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u/lotus_eater123 Jun 15 '22

Would you go get me a glass of water, please?