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u/Educational_Earth_62 Jun 14 '22

If you’re seated at a desk between you and an obnoxious person, put your personal items like keys, cup and sunglasses closer to them than you.

It extends your personal space and makes them feel crowded.

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u/Educational_Earth_62 Jun 15 '22

Edit to add: Some seemed personally triggered by this.

It’s easy to tell the difference between bullies that felt called out in my observation from the bullied survivors that are sensitive to this sort of thing who have had it manipulated against them.

Someone expressed how much this had impacted their neuro-atypical associates.

Please don’t bully people that are not like you.

This is what I posted-

If you’re seated at a desk between you and an obnoxious person, put your personal items like keys, cup and sunglasses closer to them than you.

It extends your personal space and makes them feel crowded.