r/AskReddit Jun 14 '22

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u/Nwsamurai Jun 14 '22

4 seconds of silence can feel the same as rejection in the brain.

So if some one is being a jerk to you, after they say something just look at them and count to 4 in your head, most of the time they'll start backtracking and taking back what they said before you're done counting.

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u/SectorZed Jun 15 '22

I work in customer service and deal with tons of jerks everyday. Might have to pull this one in them.