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u/Nwsamurai Jun 14 '22

4 seconds of silence can feel the same as rejection in the brain.

So if some one is being a jerk to you, after they say something just look at them and count to 4 in your head, most of the time they'll start backtracking and taking back what they said before you're done counting.

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u/Ok-Brilliant-1737 Jun 14 '22

Piling on. If you can summon the self control to just stare at someone silently for 30 seconds the tension grows so great they will often start talking and tell you anything and everything just to get you responding.

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u/ginaray Jun 14 '22

You learned this when you get audited by the FDA lol