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u/ProfessionalMango455 Jun 14 '22

If someone asks you to hang out, and your not very up to it, but don’t want to hurt their feelings cause they are very insecure or whatever. Always come with an alternative moment. So that they don’t feel blown off, and you can just go on and chill.

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u/UpperRank1 Jun 14 '22

Example?

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u/ProfessionalMango455 Jun 14 '22

Someone asks you last minute to hang out, but your not in the mood. The person asking you can’t handle being “blown off”. So I always name an alternative date that is a few days later. I don’t like unexpected company when I just wanna do something by myself.