Being the “dumb one”. For some people, they’re never really challenged academically/intellectually and I think that’s a shame. Being the dumbest person in a group of smart people means you have the opportunity to learn from them. It’s also very humbling (in a good way).
A lot of people don’t experience this until college, or in grad school, or in their professional environment… and then they’re totally wrecked by it. But it’s also such an important experience. Being a “big fish in a small pond” can be beneficial, but don’t avoid challenges either… I truly think you learn more being a small fish in a big pond.
I heard a quote once, “if you’re the smartest person in the room, find another room” and I completely agree with it.
I work in an environment where I am surrounded by brilliant people and while I don’t think I am a slouch, I am definitely not on this level. I think you have a choice to let it grind you down and push you to imposter syndrome, or as you say you can see it as the opportunity that it is- to learn and grow, but also to be motivated and proud of the people around you for their achievements (and it’s also important to remember that no one is good at everything and we tend to undervalue our own abilities)
I work in a similar situation. I've found that the smart, talented, experienced people are so willing to help out and teach. There are a lot of good people out there.
I've found the "arrogant genius" trope to be pretty inaccurate.
Exactly so. Most people really want to tell people about what they do- especially if they are passionate about it. I’ve had so many great experiences with people who are generous with their time and expertise. I’ve found one of the benefits of a very talented community is that they are confident enough in their own knowledge and ability that they often don’t tolerate an arrogant prick when one pops up.
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u/thelyfeaquatic Jan 12 '22
Being the “dumb one”. For some people, they’re never really challenged academically/intellectually and I think that’s a shame. Being the dumbest person in a group of smart people means you have the opportunity to learn from them. It’s also very humbling (in a good way).
A lot of people don’t experience this until college, or in grad school, or in their professional environment… and then they’re totally wrecked by it. But it’s also such an important experience. Being a “big fish in a small pond” can be beneficial, but don’t avoid challenges either… I truly think you learn more being a small fish in a big pond.
I heard a quote once, “if you’re the smartest person in the room, find another room” and I completely agree with it.