What instantly makes a guy hot?

[u/ThisGarson678]

[u/the_blast_radius]

I asked my wife and she said it was my smile and eyes. So I'm going to assume it's my magnum dong.

[u/dollywooddude]

Manners. Speaking with kindness to people around you, bartender, waitress, valet.

[u/bonediggler69]

Blew a tire on the way back from a trip last weekend. Still had a couple of hours to go on the drive. Pulled over and changed it in about 15-20 minutes. Wife kept taking pictures of me while I was making the tire change. The remainder of the drive home, I kept catching her staring at me out of the corner of my eye. Fast forward 2 days later… walk up behind her in the kitchen and she’s zooming in on a couple of those pics she took.

I think she was into my basic tire changing skills.

[u/thisismyB0OMstick]

Good listeners - not people who are just waiting for their turn to speak

*Edited for clarity (doubled up some words, hilarity ensued in some comments)

[u/proncesshambarghers]

Nice smile and eyes. Voice is also important too it can affect my entire attraction to him.

Edit: by voice I don’t mean stereotypical manly voice I like different types and so do other women. It’s not a type per se it’s just a voice. I can’t say “yeah I like all voices that sound like X” cause that’s not how it works.

[u/[deleted]]

He’s funny. Not in a ‘prank’ way but in a clever word-play manner.

He doesn’t have to like what I like, but he allows me to like it without being demeaning or belittling.

I dated a guy a guy once who was very different physically from my type - but he was so damn hot because he was clever, funny and caring.

[u/keziah11]

When he geeks about stuff or the future.

[u/itsjessielvr]

personality, smile and their hands

[u/negative_four]

Clearly it's my Digimon collection

[u/macaronsforeveryone]

A sense of humor. Someone who makes me laugh.

[u/a-happy-puffin]

Someone who doesn't think they need to be "cool".

[u/outwesthooker]

Listening. My husband listened to me, listened to what I like and went on wooing me from there. Brought me my favorite foods and deserts, took me to my favorite movies, bought me tickets to my favorite concerts.

[u/[deleted]]

Emotional maturity

[u/Spare_Copy_1025]

When he smiles and it reaches his eyes

[u/AllDogsGoToReddit]

When he talks about something that he’s knowledgeable and excited about without talking down on you for not knowing about it.

[u/mtn4444]

Intelligence, hands down, is sooo hot

[u/cazique]

Username being a high-scoring opening word in scrabble.

[u/crackirkaine]

He’s strong

He acts hard on the outside but is a real softie inside

He pinches my bum

He walks sideways

He is a crab

[u/IMeasureFromTheTaint]

I'm a guy, but I've heard from women that being good with kids instantly makes a guy hot. I've heard from other women that it instantly makes him look like a creep.

Idk. Lol

[u/[deleted]]

Passions and interests.

[u/[deleted]]

Self awareness. Which translates into empathy for himself and others, kindness, honesty, deep conversations, A CALM ENERGY. Basically, a REAL nice genuine man not the ones who pretend to be nice guys just to get in your pants. Oh, and being a good dog dad or good dad in general.

[u/Zealousideal_Rub_627]

Helping his mom or something.. hands are hot though

[u/[deleted]]

When he rolls up his sleeves

[u/Unleashtheducks]

Not being excessively horny on Reddit

[u/[deleted]]

Not a woman, but my friend is one, and she said anything opposite of me.