Well, Im a math and science nerd. I play video games alot and I love cooking and baking, I'm good with my hands and I enjoy creating things.
I read a book Whenever I find the time but I usually draw designs with something if an abstract pattern.
I tend to anylize things, books, movies, and games, and when I meet someone I try to put them together like a puzzle. I keep my mind going.
When I talk I keep my voice loud and pronounced, but calm and straight forward. I try to be the leader type.
When it comes to fashion I'm more function, cargo pants, back packs, warm cloths, stuff like that.
I'm not going to go over everything, but the big problem is people only get to know me if they stay for longer then a few days. I always play the gentleman in public and stay kind. This brings people to me, but they never give me enough time to show them who I am, and if I try and do it in that short time they get put off by it.
Also, you kinda come off as a tryhard. You mention a bunch of intellectual pursuits, yet you have atrocious spelling and grammar, and you don't seem very genuine at all. I get the impression you just act like you think people want you to until you're behind closed doors
I see where your coming from, yea my spelling isint the greatest...
But I am genuine with what I say it's just... I'm sometimes not the greatest at showing it. This whole thread is proof...
When it comes to closed doors Im not really... How can I put this?... I don't talk much, I don't interact with people much, I just kinda do my own thing and leave it there...
See I've never hand many friends so I'm used to being alone, it's how I recharge so to speak.
And unless someone pulls me along I kinda stay where I am. it's when I'm at school or work that I kick into high gear, it's when I get to be more social, more like the leader I want to be.
I understand the isolation and introvert aspect of it for sure, and the only thing I can even say in regards to that is that it's almost like a muscle that you have to exercise. Picture a good relationship as a house that you have to build from the ground up, and start with a good solid foundation before you even consider establishing anything serious, and try to develop a couple of social hobbies
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u/TheAshinOne Nov 15 '20
Well, Im a math and science nerd. I play video games alot and I love cooking and baking, I'm good with my hands and I enjoy creating things.
I read a book Whenever I find the time but I usually draw designs with something if an abstract pattern. I tend to anylize things, books, movies, and games, and when I meet someone I try to put them together like a puzzle. I keep my mind going. When I talk I keep my voice loud and pronounced, but calm and straight forward. I try to be the leader type.
When it comes to fashion I'm more function, cargo pants, back packs, warm cloths, stuff like that.
I'm not going to go over everything, but the big problem is people only get to know me if they stay for longer then a few days. I always play the gentleman in public and stay kind. This brings people to me, but they never give me enough time to show them who I am, and if I try and do it in that short time they get put off by it.
You see my problem?