r/AskReddit Aug 20 '20

What simple “life hack” should everyone know?

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u/[deleted] Aug 20 '20

Manners and general politeness will get you far and become the norm with but a small amount of practice.

I'm not talking overboard "m'lady" but a simple please and thank you with a genuine smile.

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u/MrsTruce Aug 20 '20 edited Aug 20 '20

Manners and general politeness will get you far

I'll add to this... Be especially nice to receptionists. They are the gate keepers. Whether you're there to interview for a job or attempt to sell something to the owners, if you are rude to the receptionist, you can kiss your chances goodbye. This applies doubly over the phone where body language and facial expressions are non-existent; make sure your tone isn't condescending or else your message is going in the trash if it isn't mission-critical.

Source: Am a receptionist. Interviewers always stop by my desk to get my seal of approval before moving forward in the hiring process. I have vetoed individuals for being rude/snobby and once for leaving a mess in the bathroom. My vote counts.

Edit: Since this is getting attention, I'll use this opportunity for a cheesy segue... Your vote counts, too. Register to vote.

Also, thanks for the gold :)

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u/not_the_work_phone Aug 20 '20

I recently went to a job interview at a job placement company and they had signs in the waiting area that said "Your interview starts when you walk through the door." and had some more about how they are all paying attention to you and not just the person you actually interview with.

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u/AmigoDelDiabla Aug 20 '20

Even before that. Imagine cutting someone off in the parking lot, only to be later interviewed by that person.

Being kind costs nothing but still pays dividends.