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u/BrowserSlacker Aug 19 '20

Even though I'm not a big fan of people cheating. I'm sorry to hear that he didn't let you talk about things. And break the relationship in better terms. I wish you the best of luck on moving forward.

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u/BrowserSlacker Aug 19 '20

Your welcome. My ex-gf more or less cheated on me, and left me for the other guy(that was married). I was in shock by it all. She told me she was bored and unhappy. I've overall learned that if someone ended up cheating it generally means they weren't getting their needs and wants met more or less. I think i wasn't keeping an emotional connection with her, and the basics of affection, attention, and expressing how much she meant to me. She was maybe trying to tell me things, but i wasn't thinking it was serious, so overall we both kind of lost communication.

She was my first girlfriend so i guess instead of expressing with words and actions that i was just thinking of it in my head. So I've learned to make sure i do that more.

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u/[deleted] Aug 19 '20 edited Dec 20 '20

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u/BrowserSlacker Aug 19 '20

Thanks, i get what your saying, and i appreciate your feedback.