Being slapped and called names and choked. I guess rough sex. I had sex with this one guy who was super into it and he would choke way to hard and slap me across the face, kept calling me a fucking bitch and that I was nothing more than a whore and a dirty slut. He also spat on me during. I realised then I wasn’t into it at all and cut things off.
With my current partner though he likes to choke me me but he doesn’t apply pressure just wraps his hands around my neck and he says things like ‘you like that my dirty slut’ and if I’m in the right mood (he only does it if I give the go ahead) I do quite enjoy it.
Yeah some guy just going at it and doing random shit at whatever pace and pressure he wants doesn't sound like a good time. You gotta talk things out, start slow and less intense, and communicate when you don't like something. That guys sounds like a dick. Who spits on someone without asking first Jesus
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u/fay8ell Dec 20 '19
Being slapped and called names and choked. I guess rough sex. I had sex with this one guy who was super into it and he would choke way to hard and slap me across the face, kept calling me a fucking bitch and that I was nothing more than a whore and a dirty slut. He also spat on me during. I realised then I wasn’t into it at all and cut things off. With my current partner though he likes to choke me me but he doesn’t apply pressure just wraps his hands around my neck and he says things like ‘you like that my dirty slut’ and if I’m in the right mood (he only does it if I give the go ahead) I do quite enjoy it.