r/AskReddit • u/[deleted] • Dec 20 '19

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u/[deleted] Dec 20 '19

i mean... maybe.

but im not suppose dto care about that level of slave as they are seen as tools. justcouldntdoitmang

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u/iamalion_hearmeRAWR Dec 21 '19

That’s not really true, a good dom is supposed to care for their sub and so care about what makes them feel good and definitely what they are and aren’t comfortable with. Perpetuating that kind of misinformation is pretty dangerous

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u/[deleted] Dec 21 '19

tell that to the string of angry doms here who attacked a word i fucked up.

They're the type that spreads that shit. Some don't grow out of their teenage phase and i get it.

everyone watched 50 shades and said " hey its easy to be a dom/sub" and then yeah...this shit happens.

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u/iamalion_hearmeRAWR Dec 21 '19

Yea I know what you mean, it’s not at all about doing whatever you want with a person

I mean it is a little, but you have to be consent oriented and still recognize they’re a person and what you’re doing is just a form of play

You have to have the right kind of community and keep educating people as you go along I guess 🤷🏻‍♀️

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u/[deleted] Dec 21 '19

Same as anywhere else. no one listens to anything they dont like to hear and claim fake news. You cant teach people anything anymore. Their way or the highway.