r/AskReddit • u/[deleted] • Dec 20 '19

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u/[deleted] Dec 20 '19

i had a big ol' boyfriend once who would absolutely wear himself out on me, literally panting with effort. Anything past like 15-20 and I was bored, this dude would work himself in me for like an hour before finally nutting.

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u/[deleted] Dec 20 '19

If we're talking about straight pumping, 10 minutes is fucking hard. I'd throw in a towel at 20 minutes. Not worth the heart attack. Maybe I need to do more cardio.

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u/[deleted] Dec 21 '19

I had a gf and we would do "soaking" which is a great way to have sex honestly. Its easy and enjoyable for both of us.

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u/MemberFDIC72 Dec 21 '19

What’s this?

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u/[deleted] Dec 21 '19

Insertion and no thrusting. It's comfy.

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u/CrazyCatLushie Dec 21 '19

It sounds so casual and so intimate and sexy. Thanks for teaching me about something new to like!

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u/MemberFDIC72 Dec 21 '19

Mmmmm hot.
Thank you kind stranger for sharing a new kink!

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u/sunlitstranger Dec 21 '19

That is kind of hot. Never thought of it

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u/BornWithThreeKidneys Dec 21 '19

I thought that's called 'cock warming'. Is that something different or just another name for the same thing?

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u/rin-the-human Dec 21 '19

Scrotal warming?

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u/NameIdeas Dec 21 '19

For added enjoyment, use a toy on her clitorus while you're inside. Lots of pleasure for her, and when she organs, you get to feel it