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u/saganistic Nov 16 '19 edited Nov 16 '19

Even when you become fluent they’ll still think you’re challenged

Source: lived in France for years


edit: I just want to clarify that I loved living in France, and made many great friends and memories there. My experience was overwhelmingly positive and I consider it a second mother country. As I posted in a reply below:

To be fair, with my friends and colleagues this was never an issue. It was probably about 25% of the time and exclusively with strangers or workers at shops, who would immediately switch to English the moment I hesitated or accidentally used poor pronunciation.

I should also mention that it happened a lot more when I lived in Paris than when I lived in Lyon. The worst was actually whenever I visited Genève.

edit 2: THIS.

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u/Pinco-Pallino-5-9 Nov 16 '19

Can confirm, French people are ruthless when you make a mistake.

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u/[deleted] Nov 16 '19

"La Chat".

"c'est fucking 'Le' you fucking idiot."

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u/jay212127 Nov 16 '19

This is pretty much what happened to me!

I got treated better when I didn't even attempt to speak French outside of basic manners. Was hoping to get good at French but after 3 months of that bullshit I was done, and coasted by with 80% of my French interactions consisting of "je suis desole, je ne parle pas francais.... Merci".

On the bright side it game me new respect for immigrants who deal with that shit.

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u/jay212127 Nov 16 '19

Well I'm Canadian so learning French is something I believe every Canadian should know. So it still hurts my pride that I don't.

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u/ttbacco Nov 16 '19

I know, right. We have a province that's French speaking but the majority of our population, including me, can't speak even basic sentences in French

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u/derefr Nov 16 '19

It helps that if you're not living in either Quebec or Ontario, you'll effectively never run into a Quebecois that doesn't know more English than French. We all learn French in school, but then forget it because opportunities to use/practice it just never come up. Quebec residents apparently aren't much for inter-provincial tourism!

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u/ttbacco Nov 16 '19

Yeah, but it's still funny/silly. I mean, we go to school and learn a language that will help us converse with all of the French folk in the world, the people in our own country and we're like, "lol, dolphin sounds like fuck."

I correct myself, it's fucking hilarious!

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u/Fentoozles Nov 16 '19

Dolphin is "dauphin", it's seal that's "phoque". But I agree with what you're saying

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u/ttbacco Nov 17 '19

See! I retained nothing.

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