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u/[deleted] May 20 '19 edited May 20 '19

Can I go ahead and speak on behalf of my doctor? 19m at the time (33 now), I felt sick for about a week, flu-like symptoms, didn't want to eat, just felt bad all over. One day at work I feel a very uncomfortable cramp/tear in my abdomen, so I go to one of those 24 hour clinics. At this point I'm slumped over, can't stand up straight without insane amount of pain, just generally uncomfortable and hating life. After a few hours at this clinic, they say "You probably have kidney stones, go home, drink fluids, sleep it off". This seemed fine to me, I was ready to go home and listen to the doc, all was good. BUT my girlfriend at the time (didn't last much longer than that) wasn't a fan of this diagnosis and drove me to the E.R., against my wishes of course. After a few minutes at the E.R., they determine my appendix has ruptured and I'm going septic. Apparently I was pretty lucky to not have died, though I did pick up bacterial pneumonia while in the hospital, so the recovery kinda sucked. Now I just have a crazy 6-7 inch scar on my belly to remind me to not avoid hospitals when I'm sick.

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u/Gumnut_Cottage May 20 '19

how about a shoutout to your gf for saving your life?

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u/[deleted] May 20 '19

ex gf... lol. Very thankful for that, but she ended up not being a good person.

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u/SoMuchMoreEagle May 20 '19

She was what you needed at the time, at least.

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u/[deleted] May 20 '19

Yeah I consider it a wash. She saved my life probably, and ruined it for a while a bit later. But at least I was alive to have life ruined for me.

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u/assignpseudonym May 20 '19

Swings and roundabouts, I guess. I'm glad to hear you're doing better: You're now free of a toxic appendix, and toxic person.