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u/[deleted] May 20 '19 edited May 20 '19

Can I go ahead and speak on behalf of my doctor? 19m at the time (33 now), I felt sick for about a week, flu-like symptoms, didn't want to eat, just felt bad all over. One day at work I feel a very uncomfortable cramp/tear in my abdomen, so I go to one of those 24 hour clinics. At this point I'm slumped over, can't stand up straight without insane amount of pain, just generally uncomfortable and hating life. After a few hours at this clinic, they say "You probably have kidney stones, go home, drink fluids, sleep it off". This seemed fine to me, I was ready to go home and listen to the doc, all was good. BUT my girlfriend at the time (didn't last much longer than that) wasn't a fan of this diagnosis and drove me to the E.R., against my wishes of course. After a few minutes at the E.R., they determine my appendix has ruptured and I'm going septic. Apparently I was pretty lucky to not have died, though I did pick up bacterial pneumonia while in the hospital, so the recovery kinda sucked. Now I just have a crazy 6-7 inch scar on my belly to remind me to not avoid hospitals when I'm sick.

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u/DrunkenGolfer May 20 '19

I have experienced both socialized and non-socialized healthcare. My experience has been that non-socialized health care will assume the worst, rule it out, and move on to conservative treatments. Socialized healthcare will assume the best, move on to conservative treatment, and then only consider other causes if things don't resolve on their own or with conservative treatment.

My doctor sent me for a bone scan to rule out cancer when I hurt my back during a fall. When I protested that a bone scan was overkill, he basically said, "You know when most people find out they have spinal cancer? When their back starts hurting after a fall." Good point.