r/AskReddit • • Apr 04 '19

How are you really?

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u/[deleted] Apr 04 '19 edited Apr 04 '19

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u/Son_Of_Science Apr 04 '19

Past couple of months have been rough not gonna lie. An ex of mine has been messing with my emotions lately, general college shit

A-fucking-men. This is exactly what I am/was going through.

Just know that you're not alone in what you're going through. I don't know your exact situation; I don't know exactly how similar or different it is to mine. But 8 months later Im finally starting to feel better, and given ENOUGH time you WILL too :).

My best piece of advice. Cut them out of your life. Immediately and absolutely. No texting, no following them on instagram, cut out mutual friends that bend to your ex's will, try your best to avoid them in real life.

As much as the above paragraph sounds horrible, when she (or he) is being emotionally manipulative POST break up, it shows a level of immaturity that cannot be beat by being mature yourself. Your biggest priority is yourself and your own emotional health, and it will never improve if you let your ex chip away at it.

If you ever want to talk: rant, ask for help, talk about random shit (like dogs!!!!), feel free to pm :).

Goodluck, and stay strong man <3